Check your Invision -- Theme Manager and make sure you have a theme/scheme loaded .. and that it supports sounds.
Look in the left column (Settings) for a list of components for that theme and you should see - for example - DCC Outgoing Sound .. and when you single click on it, the event path is displayed on the right in File: ... if your current theme/scheme does not have a list of sounds (as well as all the other components), load a different theme (Invision may close & restart to load the new theme).
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